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I just noticed something about myself. Every time I go into a store, I buy something or two or three or four somethings. I keep telling myself that I am just going in to look because stores are like museums. And when I walk inside the door of a store, I leave my stressful life outside. But I never end up just looking. What I look at calls to me, "You can't live without me. I would look so good with your 10 pair of black pants and 20 black jackets. If you leave me here you won't be able to sleep tonight." So yeah, I just noticed that. What now? Can any of my secret followers help me?